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Watch For Signs

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ADating signsny guy that wants to be the king of dating in his area should learn to really pay attention to the women he goes out with and listen to them. Women will give all the clues a guy could possibly ask for when it comes to what they want, whether they’re interested and when they’re ready for sex.

The lady will surely let a guy know in many ways, but not the least of which is her body language. If a woman licks her lips a lot or plays with her hair while she’s talking to a guy, she’s interested. Not only is she interested, she’s thinking about kissing and sex. Now that doesn’t mean that she wants to have sex that night, but it does mean that she’s thinking of the man in sexual terms and that’s a good sign. Most women know within the first 10 minutes of the first date if this guy has any chance at all of sleeping with her in the future, but even if she decides that he does, it doesn’t mean that she wants it that night. Take the body language as a good thing, and plan on another date with her a soon as possible.

Let the lady lead the way when it comes to when to have sex. It’s fine to let her know that there is definite interest, but try not to be tacky about it because a lot of ladies won’t respond favorably to that. Moaning during a first kiss is a turn off for a lot of women, even if she was giving signs that she might eventually be interested in sex. Getting too physical too soon may also turn her off. Think romantic right now in order to keep her interested. Be manly, but not too pushy and definitely not forceful. Kiss her firmly but not uncomfortably so. This is not the time for a kiss on the cheek because that could land a guy in the friend zone.

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Smooth Sailing

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Smooth sailingRemember that Adult dating is all about finding the right person. It’s not just about finding the right type. If you are into gay or lesbian  Adult dating then you want to find the right place for you. It’s easier to just go to a dating site that caters to that preference than it is to go mainstream where you will be less welcome. If you want to find quality and decency then you’ll more than likely have to pay for it since free dating sites might be less well kept up.

Then there is the quality of people there as well. If you are a reasonably well educated person that enjoys theater you might have a lot more going for you if you find a fuck buddy that enjoys that too. You don’t want to go having sex with someone that doesn’t have anything in common with your interests. At best you might have a very dry and less than pleasing experience. Just remember to be patient and take the time because when you do your really investing in your future. You wouldn’t just buy the first car you came across so why would you just hop on board with the first dating site you come across.

Look around and find a dating site that promises the things someone in the single and looking category might find interesting. Just take things free and easy and don’t stress over much about things. Too many people get desperate and they let that desperation cause them to make less than well educated decisions. Then they have a string of failed relationships behind them. Don’t be one of those people. Pick your shots and take them carefully and you’ll see it works out. Would you rather go through the hassle every week or would you rather take a few weeks of looking find just what your looking for.

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And The Criticism Is…?

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Critics seem to be the people most perturbed by the obvious, as if they are just aching to pounce and will at not only the slightest provocation but at redundancies. If an online dating site has the word sex in its title, advertises for causal hook-ups, then a person could be against that way of dating, but don’t be surprised when you find a certain morally casual attitude of the people who populate that site! If one is on a single’s dating site for Christians, most likely, one is going to find Christians there and someone devoted to being a Muslim will probably not find as many takers.

Just what is it the criticism is about…online dating sites being too obvious?

The beauty of the web for dating is that no one has to truly hide what they do, how the act and what they look for on it since we can all pretty much remain anonymous when logged-on. But critics of this new way of interacting are ever mindful of just what sites advertise-and usually spit their venom at sites that advertise sex-and become crazed when they log-on to a site just for research purposes, mind you, and get exactly what the site reports to give.

We might want to live in a world to our own design but that’s just not the way it’s going to play out for any of us. We will come-up against different world-views, kinks and fetishes we can’t stomach in our bed, single people who date their own gender and the opposite in equal measure. It might make us sick, it might rock the very foundation of our beliefs, , but if the way people are interacting is advertised on a site, or we have a hint that things may occur online in a way we could be repulsed, like listening to a radio station we don’t like or seeing a T.V. show we have seen too many times before, we can chose to click out mouse on some other site, or never peruse the portal that offends us.

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The Best Sex Music

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Whenever I’m lucky enough to get an asian woman to come back to my place for some sexy times, one of the major decisions to make is what kind of music to put on.  After all, music is a very individual thing, so my favorite sex music (Tool, NIN) might not get the woman where she needs to be.  And if she likes to have sex to TOP 40 shit, I probably wouldn’t be able to focus on the pleasure because I’d be too busy thinking about how terrible today’s music is.

You can’t go by what’s in porn movies either.  That wa-wa pedal guitar music just doesn’t do it for the ladies, and it’s kind of funny now that it’s so cliche.  Most people will default to a Barry White album, or a Sade album.  They’re good, granted, but not too energetic, as far as sex music goes.  They’re more of a “making love” type of music, whereas I like some good old fashioned fucking music.  Something to get the hips moving, and the grinding going.

I guess ideally you could ask the woman what her favorite sex music is, and find some common ground.  God knows you can’t trust the radio.  Just when you get it going, they go to a five minute block of commercials for used cars and Tim Hortons.  That’s why I like to put out a collection of my cds for the woman to choose whenn we’re about to get down to it.  I always keep a Weird Al cd in there as a joke, and so far none of the women have commented on it.  Fucking to Weird Al would just be strange.

Rock on!

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New Sex For Old School Asian Women

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I love dating asian women.  More than that, I love fucking asian women.  Because I use online dating and sex sites to meet them, I have had a lot of sex with a lot of different women.  On thing I’ve noticed about asian women, even those born in western society, is that they have some old-fashioned notions about sex and sexuality.

I’m not sure if they get it from their parents, or from the media and movies that come out of Asia, but I don’t like it.  So, to help all you hot asian women out there, I have come up with four tips you can use to improve your old-world view of sex, and bring you screaming with pleasure into the twenty-first century.

The first thing you have to learn is that it is a misconception to think that the man always makes the first move.  This is no longer the case.  In the age of sexual liberation, women can make the first move.  Jump on HIM and tear HIS shirt off.  If you’re feeling the urge – go with it.  Believe me, he’ll go along with you every time.  And he’ll love you for taking the lead from time to time!

The second thing to learn is that you should not keep your sexual fantasies secret.  Don’t be afraid to tell him all your desires and daydreams – even if they get really kinky or strange.  After all, you want to make all his fantasies come true, why shouldn’t he reciprocate.  And believe me, unless you want to cook his shit and eat it while he fucks you, he’ll probably be into whatever you have in mind.

A lot of the asian women I have been with believe the man should direct the sex positions and action.  Not so.  Take the reins, ladies.  Get on top and drive!  The guy will be glad to take a breather, and you can do what makes your body feel good.   And get dirty with it – be as dirty as you want in the bedroom!

Many of the asian women I have been with are very quiet lovers.  I’m not sure why – it really turns me on when a woman moans and groans as I’m pleasuring her.  And when she climaxes, I love it when they lose control and scream.  It is a turn-on!  Give full voice to your pleasure!

Now get out there and have fun!

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