The idea of seeking out a sex partner who is not our type, far and away different than any person we have ever known is a wildly attractive concept for some single people. But do opposites really attract, does the unknown really represent mystery that can be turned into something sexy? When do our pursuits become too opposite, too unusual, too exotic; foreign simply to be foreign to our experience? When will a contrary world-view, a clash of cultures, a simple thick and impossible language barrier become a burden? Does that someone we have never encountered, only maybe fantasized over represent an intrinsic spark to a prurient interest that is intriguing, or off-putting? Can we really make a go of it when we encounter someone so different?
We see a chasm of different between east and west cultures and Asian sex-whatever that term really means-does at times represent intriguing tendrils to the west as does western sexual culture send prompts across the world to the men and women who are interested in a contrary view point and way of life, even physical characteristics of possible partners totally unlike them. The contrary intrigue of people not like us is why at one time hot asian porn was so enticing, especially at a time when many cultures viewed that kind of coupling as verboten. Nowadays, as most adult daters surmount the prejudices of skin color what we really have left to intrigue us oppositely is customs and mores and there are none more opposite then those between the west and the east.
This is why Asian sex does have a place in western culture as fantasized and sometimes fetishized ideal as much as why often time American porn does so well in the east. It is the idea of the unknown, the unfamiliar and in some ways opposites attracting when we all know that even though we might look drastically different then someone, or speak a different language from them, we all want, enjoy and fantasize about our sex, Asian or any other, pretty much the same way.
